The terms, in plain language.

The short version

This site is for adults. It teaches; it does not treat. When you buy something, the checkout belongs to Stan or Whop and their rules apply. The words here are mine — read them, use them, do not republish them. That is most of it. The details follow.

Who this is for

Adults. Eighteen and over, no exceptions. The work here discusses power dynamics in adult relationships, and it is written for the people living them. By using this site you are telling me you are at least 18.

What this is, and what it is not

Everything on this site — the Curriculum, the books, the Field Kit, the community — is education. Observation, language, and frameworks, offered so you can see your own dynamic more clearly. It is not therapy, not medical care, not legal advice, and not a substitute for any of them. Reading my work does not make you my client or my patient. If you are in crisis, or in a relationship that is doing you harm, a book is not the tool. A licensed professional is.

Consent is the floor

Every dynamic described in this work assumes informed, freely given, revocable consent between adults. Nothing here is instruction, permission, or cover to control, coerce, or harm anyone. If you read it that way, you have misread it, and what you do is on you.

Buying things

This site sells nothing directly. The books check out through Stan, and Dynamic Mastery runs on Whop. When you buy, you are on their property: their terms, their payment processing, and their policies apply, including billing, cancellation, and refunds. If something is stuck, write to me and I will help you sort it.

The reviews

The member reviews and reader words on this site are from real people, shared with permission. They describe those people's experiences. Yours will be your own; no one's outcome here is a promise of yours. Nobody was paid to say any of it.

The words are mine

The writing, the tools, and the rest of what lives on this site are my work and are protected by copyright. Read them, quote a line with credit, share the links freely. Do not republish, repackage, scrape, or sell them. The Field Kit is free for you — not free for your funnel.

Links out

Where this site points to other places — Stan, Whop, the social platforms — I do not control what happens there and am not responsible for their content or their conduct.

Where my responsibility ends

I stand behind this work and I write it with care. But you are the one living your life and your relationships, and the decisions you make with this material are yours. The site is provided as it is, without warranties, and to the fullest extent the law allows I am not liable for damages arising from your use of it or from what you do with what you read.

Changes

If these terms change in a way that matters, the date at the top changes with it. Using the site after that means the current version applies. Questions go tokane@kanecross.com.