The Dynamic Field Kit · Free PDF

Learn to read the dynamic in front of you.

I put four practical guides in one place, so you can recognize what you are seeing and know what to ask next.

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What is inside

  • The 60-Second Scan

    Where the dynamic actually stands, read in one minute.

  • Real or Fake

    The tells that separate a real Dom from a performance.

  • Leading or Controlling

    The line between the two, and which side you are standing on.

  • The Aftercare Checklist

    What has to happen after, every single time.

A page from the kit The 60-Second Scan
The 60-Second Scan page: seven questions about responsibility, accepting no, consistency and accountability.
Read the seven questions as text
  1. Does he talk about what he carries, or only about what he gets?
  2. When you said no to something small, did it cost you anything?
  3. Is he the same man when you disagree as when you agree?
  4. Has he set rules for you before earning a single one of them?
  5. When he was wrong, did he own it, or reframe it?
  6. Is he matching your pace, or rushing you past it?
  7. Does his attention feel like being studied, or being handled?
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