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The Curriculum

Field notes on the dynamic. The mechanisms underneath what you feel, and the language to do something with them.

July 2026The over-functioning woman
How to Tell If You're Actually Submissive
You run everything. You hold everyone. I have met a hundred women like you, and almost none of them had the words for what they actually wanted.
July 2026The body-blind crash
Why Do I Crash With No Warning? The Body-Blind Crash
You felt fine. Fine, fine, fine, and then you were on the floor, with no warning bell anywhere in between. I want to explain why.
July 2026The fawn response
Why Does She Ask Permission for Everything? The Fawn Response
She checks before she does almost anything. I used to read it as insecurity. It took me a long time to see what I was actually looking at.